TRUE STORY -After 3 abortions for him,he wants to get married to another lady

I’m sorry to bother you but this will be long. This is
the past 5 years of my life i’m trying so hard not to
remember. I’m not new to life experiences, i’ve heard
and seen a lot of relationship troubles.
I’ve counselled many ladies like me but why i fell for
this still remains a misery. Please don’t blame me, i’m
in pain already. I’ve asked myself so many questions i
still can’t answer, i’ve tried to forgive and move on
but i couldn’t.
If for just once, i’ve decided to listen to my dark side.
Pls, don’t bother how suspicious this account may
look, it’s the same account i used in finding out the
whole truth from the unlucky lady.
I met this guy august 2008 at the wedding of my boss
and after about 6 months of trying to be difficult, i
decided to date him. Before then, I’ve had my share
of men’s headache and loving him at first wasn’t so
easy for me that i’d to ignore him for that long.
heaven knows how much i loved him. It was all over
him that he loved me too, we just couldn’t hide it.
We both enjoy the moments and i gave my all to keep
us together. I lost my decisions to him, i tried not to
wrong him, he was my total desire for a man, and
how would i want to lose him? Our first year took
a lot out of me. I could remember how badly i missed
him when his company sent him to Kenya. He came
back and it was like he never left.
That was the night i lost my virginity to him. He knew
i wasn’t ready for it and he also supported my
decision but somehow, we couldn’t control our
affection though i’m not regreting in any way. I was
only overpowered by my emotions, naive and
inexperience. Even in the pain, i felt good because it
was him i never knew one could get pregnant so fast
or maybe my timing was wrong.
Few weeks later, the signs were obvious to me. I told
him but to my surprise, his mood changed, he couldn’t
continue with his meal before he started making me
see reasons why keeping the baby would affect our
plans. One of the reasons was how irresponsible
his father would think he is and could stop his plan
of going to the U.K for his masters.
I couldn’t say no since i’ve always wanted the best for
him. He gave me 20k which i refused. In one of the
sad moment of my life, i called a friend and told her,
she contacted someone to help us and finally we got a
doctor somewhere in (location withheld) to do the
abortion. I did it but for a week, i couldn’t go to
work. I wasn’t alright until after a month. I almost
lost my job, i couldn’t explain what went wrong but
the good part is that i was fine again. We were
doing well all along despite the distance.
In 2010 he came back shortly from the U.K and
since i was holding on for that long, i’ve missed him
so much. That night saying no to him was not in my
head and we had it and many times. It was the best
ever and we were cool. He was about going back
when i discovered i wasn’t myself. I had to call my
doctor, made an appointed and i got to know i was
pregnant again.
It was a mixed feeling but i called him up immediately
and told him. He sounded ok before letting me know
that we’re not ready for it. Truly, i wasn’t ready due
to official reasons at work. I thought about it and
had to flush it. After his masters, he came to
nigeria, introduced me to his parents and we got
along so well.
Though he said he wasn’t going to work for his
former company, he went on to set up his.
Everything was cool until i started noticing certain
changes in him. He wouldn’t pick me from the office
as usual, he was more busy that we hadly have time to
talk. I thought i was asking too much so i didn’t
complain. I was with him on a weekend when his
phone rang, he was in the bathroom then. I picked
the phone to give him since i don’t pick his calls.
The caller id was kinda strange, like a combination of
some letters. He spoke with the person, my instinct
told me it was a lady and when he gave me the phone
back, i searched his phone for any sms from that
number. I was able to get an email which i put
through facebook and that confirmed my doubts. The
bastard was engaged to another lady. He was smart
not have accepted so as not to be visible on his
profile. I was lost, i wanted to die right there.
I quickly opened another account and i made friend
with the lady. We were so close and we talked more,
within 3weeks we were like best of friends. I asked
about my man and she opened up so much that my
body became weak. I got to know they would be
getting married from her. I never asked for a life
like this. Why are men so evil? To make it worse, i
was pregnant for him again. I couldn’t hold it, i
confronted him, my chris was right before me
looking like an .
I only wish i had a gun, it would have ended right
there. I knew there wasn’t hope of a father for the
baby, i never wanted to be single mom so i ran to his
parents but his mother’s reception was so cold that i
suspected something was wrong. I went back home. I
cried my eyes out, nothing could be more painful in
the world than my feelings.
I told myself i was going to face it, i left my parents
out of this mess. I badge into his house the next
morning around 7am, told him i was carrying his
child and that i was going to abort it. He was just
looking at me and later starting apologizing. I was so
mad that i had to throw his home stool at him, he was
so quick to dodge it. I wish i had killed him.
I went back to his mother and she shouted at me, she
said her son will never marry me. My head flew off
but i never talked back, i was calm to ask her
reason. I got to realise that he had told his mother
about the abortions and how it was only me that took
the decision. In my life i have never been this
terrible knowing how well he convinced his mom to
hating me. Now i have aborted the thing, it doesn’t
make any sense keeping it.
I’m only asking you for advice if there is a better way
to end this because i already have his wedding date
later this month and sincerely i had contracted his
death. Please keep this to yourself as i’m only seeking
a better ending but not pleading for his death. I
know i look so wasted and useless right now but he’s
never going to enjoy any moment of his life, that i
promise.
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There’s no way i would have kept this barbaric life
experience and at the same time allow someone’s
death. I saw urgency in her story; i saw a lady who
could take any decision regardless of the damage.
I’ve spoken with her on phone and she seem alright.
I made her realize how there’s no better ending that
she seeks in the death of the young man. What i
don’t know is if she has truly changed her mind. I
still don’t have any details but this might be a warning
to someone out there that’s why i couldn’t hide the
name. I usually don’t do this! It’s without permission,
at least, not when a life is at stake. Please advice her
and that could save a life! I will make sure i refer her
to this post to read your comments.
SOURCE https://www.facebook.com/
SingleDatingEngagedMarried
Original Blog http://
www.coachdexplorer.com/2013/12/
e-mails-after-aborting-3-times-for-
him.html

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