Men Who Hide Their Girlfriends Are Guilty Of Cheating – Popular Polygamist, Musa Mseleku Says As He Confesses Having Girlfriends Apart From His Four Wives

A well-known polygamist in South Africa, Musa Mseleku has admitted to having a girlfriend or two in addition to his four wives..

Mseleku himself admitted as much in the most recent episode of uThando Nes’Thembu, in which he appeared. Dr Nomagugu Ngobese, cultural expert and founder of the Nomkhubulwane foundation, described him as a promiscuous man in response to his statement.

Ngobese made the following statement:

“What he’s doing is not isithembu, it is not cultural. He is purely driven by lust. Culturally, the first wife, in this case Macele, decides if she wants her husband to have a second wife or not. A man does not have a privilege of choosing a second wife and as a result, the entire process of polygamy is driven by the first wife. For this reason, Mseleku is misleading the entire nation.”

Ngobese went on to say that a man could only be in love with one woman at a time and not more. Dr. Gugu Mazibuko from the University of KwaZulu-Natal agreed, saying:

“His statement clearly shows he doesn’t love or care about his wives or children. This is a negligent statement. It is dangerous and might cause psychological damage to his wives and kids. This is because they don’t know when he’ll bring the next wife home. As a result, this statement might cause unnecessary anxiety for his family.”


In response, Mseleku asserted that being transparent eliminated the element of cheating. He claims that only men who hide their girlfriends are guilty of cheating.

He said;

“I don’t cheat. It is common to have wives and girlfriends. This doesn’t mean I have many girlfriends but I guess if I were to have another wife, I would have to have a girlfriend.

“Polygamy is about being honest and transparent. The statement on its own is so open and transparent. Secondly, when you are a polygamist you declare your intentions. Cheating is when you do things in the dark. That statement is out there, so there is no cheating.

“Cheating only applies to men who hide that they have girlfriends. How do you say I am cheating when my wives know that I do have girlfriends?”

Thobile Mseleku, Mseleku’s third wife, defended her husband, saying that his claims were reasonable and not bothered.

Thobile said;

“He told me he has girlfriends, I’ve made peace with that. So I’m not surprised by his statement and I’m not bothered.”

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