The Main Reason Why Relationships Don’t Stand The Test Of Time

Currently, most relationships don’t stand the test of time and this happens due to varied reasons..

However, renowned Ghanaian counselor, Counselor Frank Edem Adofoli has elaborated the main reason behind this.

He made this known in a recent social media post on Facebook and according to him, most relationships don’t stand the test of time because either one person is not able to express their feelings to the other or their partner fails to understand them.

He added that some spouses try to play the head master role in a relationship, and this happens especially where the men are far older than their women.

The renowned then advised that to be in a relationship with someone simply means you have agreed to listen to them and relate to them in a way they are comfortable with so there is not need to get into a relationship and act all bossy, always wanting things your way.

The post he made reads;

“Most relationships end today because either one person is not able to express their feelings to the other or their partner fails to understand them.

Some spouses try to play the head master role in a relationship, especially where the men are far older than their women; and they think it is a sign of maturity. They see their women as immature and refuse to listen to their small stuff. This kind of behaviour is neither healthy for marriages nor relationships. You are truly mature when you are sensitive not when you are insensitive. You are truly mature when you give attention to both the little and big stuff, things that might not make sense to a lot of people.

To be in a relationship with someone simply means you have agreed to listen to them and relate to them in a way they are comfortable with. Don’t get into a relationship and act all bossy, always wanting things your way. It should rather be ‘our way’ because you are not in the relationship alone.

Healthy and lasting relationships are not built on age or how well you think you know someone; it is rather built on the foundation of working together.”

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