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Ten reasons why SEX must wait till after marriage



1. Sex is a powerful force that can
destroy if not used properly
Like atomic power, sex is the most powerful creative
force given to man. When atomic power is used
correctly it can create boundless energy; when it is
used in the wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the
same kind of powerful force. Sex is a gift from God
to give us the greatest pleasure, to help in creating a
deep companionship with one’s spouse and for
procreation of the next generation. But if you play
with this powerful force outside the bounds of
marriage, it destroys you and those close to you.
2. intimate activity for young people
arrests their psychological, social and
academic development. Studies show that
when young people engage in premarital sex, their
academic performance declines and their social
relationships with family and friends deteriorate.
This is because adolescents are too immature to deal
with the explosive sex drive and it tends to dominate
their life.
3. The majority of women cannot
enjoy sex outside of the bonds of
marriage. The development of a fulfilling sex life
needs the security and peace of the marriage bond.
Premarital sex usually takes place sneaking around in
hidden places dealing with the fear of being caught,
the fear of pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All these
(worrisome) factors undermine pleasure in
premarital sex, most especially for women.
4. Virginity is to be given to the most
important person in your life, the
person you committed yourself to
stay with forever in marriage Your
virginity is the most precious thing you have to give
to your spouse. Once you lose it, nothing in the
world can bring it back. Don’t lose something so
precious in a thoughtless way.
5. Those who engage in premarital sex run a high
risk of contracting one of the many venereal diseases
rampant today, as well as losing their fertility. Not
just AIDS, but other common disfiguring diseases
like herpes have no cure.
6. Some venereal diseases have no symptoms and
many couples discover many years later that they
became infertile because of these diseases. Infertility
experts estimate that 80% of today’s infertility is due
to venereal diseases contracted before they married.
7. The best and only method that guarantees 100%
against AIDS and other sexually transmitted
diseases is to wait for marriage to have sex and
maintain fidelity in your marriage.
8. Premarital sex breaks the 10 Commandments
given by God. The 10 Commandments are given to
man by God to make man happy. They are not
outdated and they are not restrictive. If we follow
these laws, we can create happy and prosperous
lives. If we don’t follow them, we will pay a heavy
price in divorce, disease, abortions, illegitimate
children and loneliness. Modern men make a big
mistake when they think that they can break these
eternal laws and not suffer consequences.
9. Premarital sex runs the risk of conceiving
illegitimate children. Numerous scientific studies
show that the children of single mothers suffer
psychologically and are less successful socially and
academically than children from intact families.
Above all, children need both their father and their
mother. It is wrong to risk having children who will
never have their father’s love, protection and care.
10. If you date and you don’t have sex, you can
forget about that relationship when you stop dating.
But if you have sex with those you date and then
break up, the nature of intimate involvement creates
strong, often unpleasant memories for your whole
life. Every relationship you break up where you had
intimate relations is like a mini-divorce. The
psychological difficulties of these mini-divorces does
damage to your character. Later, when you are
married and go to bed with your beloved spouse,
these unpleasant memories will accompany you.
True love waits. If a boy or gir

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